Anti Bullying Week

Hi Guys

It's Anti Bullying week this week, which coincides with the BBC's Children In Need. As someone who has been and to a certain degree is the recipient of this kind of behaviour, I thought it would be a good idea to give you some links if you too are affected by this.

Bullies don't see the bigger picture, a lot of the times. They see only their point of view and their feelings are the only ones that count. We know, however, that being different, talking out, standing up or making mistakes are not reasons for individuals or groups to target, intimidate and scare others.

But you're not alone. Internet stalkers and bullies affect all types of people. Doctor Who's very own Katherine Jenkins has recently been targeted by an internet bully - as detailed in my friend's blog here - Friendsofderek, internet bullying and stalking - to the extent that they even tweeted her during a live TV show. Bullying is not about what your doing wrong, it's about what the bully is doing wrong. Never think that this is your fault. It never is.

Here are some links you might find useful -

This brave young girl discusses her bullying and gives encouragement in Words Can Hurt
Childline can help younger victims of bullying, and gives invaluable advice.
The Anti Bullying Network discusses bullying in schools and workplaces
Google give advice on bullying and how to keep safe online -  although I would temper this by saying Googles own Blogger has a shocking policy when it comes to online stalkers and bullies.
The Anti Bullying Alliance  offers help and advice.
and Bully Online looks at the much more sophisticated adult bullying.

Remember, though, if you are the victim of this heinous occupation, speak to someone in authority, whether than be a parent, a boss, a teacher or the police. These people WILL help you.

Happy times and places, with any luck.

Eddie McGuigan